Energy stealers are everywhere! They are your family members and your friends, and they are your co-workers, and YOU may even be one yourself. Most of us are unaware that we are sucking people’s energy and do this unconsciously. However, it is true; if we are not aware, we will lose our energetic balance.
A common name is an Energy Vampire, and we all know what vampires do! In this case, the vampire is sucking our vital energy, depleting us, and causing us to become emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually unhealthy. Have you ever wondered why you suddenly felt drained after meeting a specific person? Or why you suddenly had a headache after your friends offloaded all their problems onto you?
Don’t worry; there is a solution to that.
Spiritual purification and cord-cutting are some tools that can keep vampires away! If you think about energetic cord cutting with someone draining your life force energy, I suggest you book a Shamanic Healing with me or someone else to help you. It is rather challenging to do this yourself as your subconscious mind might want to hold on to that specific persona for some reason. Other times we might not even be aware of our energetic bonds with some people. For this reason, how can we cut something we are unaware of?
What does the term Energy Vampire mean anyway?
An Energy Vampire is a person that steals other people’s energies because they are living their life in victim consciousness and believe that everything happens to them. Furthermore, it can also be someone who just complains about things all the time, or you seek your attention (energy), so they can feel better. Therefore, to feel better about themselves, they need to attach themselves to another person’s energy field, which often happens unconsciously. Living in this manner is very disempowering.
For an Energy Vampire to attach themselves to your energy body, they form cords attaching the two of you together. These cords are not visible to the naked eye but can be seen with the third psychic eye. They unconsciously steal your energy when they need a boost instead of using their own! These cords are also like highways and run both ways! That means that you will also receive their energy, whether it is positive or negative. As I said, this process could happen so subconsciously that non of you know it. It is that friend who only calls you when they are feeling low. Or the person who needs to have someone listen to their problems all the time but never change a thing. So how would they get better?
We bond with people around us, and the more emotionally engaged we are in relationships or friendships, the more we are connected. This connection is often an unspoken bond between two people. We are all born as empaths, able to feel what other people feel. Once we like someone or are close to them, we can pick up on their energies, even from a distance; we can also form bonds with people who don’t treat us well.
If they have a headache, they may also develop a headache. If they are depressed, you may become depressed. If they are angry, you may become angry and so on. As you can see, this can be very detrimental to your health. At an unconscious level, you have allowed the person or vampires to attach themselves to your energy body through these cords.
What you can do
In most cases, spiritual purification is required for your well-being and the other person’s growth.
How do we recognize an Energy Vampire?
Feels lonely or abandoned
Feels they have been rejected
Needs constant reassurance
Never feels satisfied
Doesn’t like to be alone
Seeks nurturing or feels they need to be taken care of
Low energy and fatigued
They have a poor me attitude
Is a drama king or queen
Constant talker that never allows you to speak
Needs you to be their therapist or rescuer fixing their problems
The blamer making you feel guilty about things
Vindictive by putting you down
A person that is unhappy a lot
Tries controlling you or your life
Manipulates you to get things their way
How do I know if I am being psychically attacked? You may experience the following:
- Loss of energy
- Muscle tension
- Mental confusion
- Chronic fatigue
- Sleep disturbances
- Depressed mood
- Physical illness
- Small diminishing aura
- Leaks, holes, and/or tears in your aura
- And a whole lot more!
The following are some tools to empower yourself.
Cord cutting should be done daily and much more often when we are going through a stressful period in our life. These cords should be cut from our loved ones as well.
Take some deep, cleansing breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth. Call upon Spirit and your Spirit Guides and ask for assistance cutting all cords attached to your being. Visualize Spirit and your Guide’s positive energy swirling around your entire being, severing all the lines. Know that no cord can remain intact, and they return to where they came from. When you feel the process is complete, thank Spirit and your Guides for their assistance. It is done.
If you feel you cannot do this alone, why not book a Shamanic Healing Session with me, and we can clear those cords away?
Here are some physical steps for purification:
Burn all relevant photographs or objects holding memories of the person, place, or situation.
Write down all feelings of frustration, anger, hurt, fear, etc., and burn the paper or bury it. Please don’t give it to the person! Repeat this step as often as necessary.
Clear all the clutter from every room of your home—rule of thumb. If you haven’t used it in 6 months, it’s not likely you will! Could you get rid of it?
Clean and, if necessary, redecorate your home. Bringing nature indoors is precious energy!
Check that there are no books on your bookshelves or pictures on your walls with negative energy. Surround yourself with high-vibrational objects, spiritual books, spiritual pictures, plants, fresh flowers, etc.
Smudge with sage, cedar, and sweetgrass and invoke the help of Spirit, your Guides, and your Higher Self.
Cleanse and purify your crystals and dedicate them to the Light.
Light candles and use high vibrational pure doTerra essential oils. You can find a wide range of oils in my shop here.
You can also read my article “Your Aura and how to take care of it,” which includes the correct use of essential oils for cleansing your energy field.
You now have the tools and knowledge to take back your personal power. I invite you to empower yourself today!